After all, there are plenty of fish in the sea—and more than enough night owls in Vegas. Several studies link shift work to higher rates of divorce and infidelity. I find this to be a difficult schedule to work as it relates to my social life. If there's one thing I've learned since going freelance full-time, it's that a whole other world exists outside You'd be surprised how many women have oddball schedules: I am looking for something new that would put me back on a standard schedule but beggars can't be choosers in this economy. I've had boyfriends that have worked the 9-to-5 and sometimes you just don't get to see them," Stephens says.