I don't know how to do that shit. When she got done, she called me and I heard a lot of background white noise. On the opposite end of the spectrum is my boyfriend. However, if your issue here is as you said that she is on the move then that is your deal breaker right there. For one, a pet peeve of mine of a social butterfly or one who is always "appearing unavailable" is someone who calls me on the go He has such an easy time making cool friends where ever he goes, and is a really good conversationalist. Because what do people even do in bars?